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A screengrab from a live stream video shows volunteers raising their hands after Israeli navy forces boarded the Gaza-bound vessel Florida yesterday. – GLOBAL SUMUD FLOTILLA VIA REUTERS

Gaza aid flotilla intercepted Reports on h pages 2 & 9

Prime Minister Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim condemns Israeli action, demands immediate release of all volunteers held, including 23 Malaysians.

Report on — page 3 Victims endure humiliation and psychological abuse in secret until it erupts as depression, burnout or even violence: Expert Ticking-bomb crisis of men suffering in silence due to domestic violence

‘With gradual fiscal consolidation, Malaysia could maintain financial assistance while keeping debt in check.’ Economists advocate smarter, targeted spending

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Activist recounts chilling moments as vessels intercepted PETALING JAYA: A Malaysian activist among the GSF captured chilling footage of Israeli forces intercepting their vessels. Influencer Nurfarahin Romli, also known as Farah Lee, sent a voice note at 5.19am yesterday before her vessel Grande Blu was surrounded, blasted with high-pressure water cannons and seized. She said the Israeli navy issued a stark ultimatum: “Turn back, divert to Israel, or face more aggressive action. “If we insist on continuing, this is the last warning – they will take action against our ship. A nearby boat is already being intercepted and we have lost connection.” The message and video were sent to her NGO, Childrity, shortly before she was confirmed detained. She has not been able to be reached since. Later, in another TikTok clip, Farah was seen raising her hands in surrender along with other passengers. Prime Minister Datuk Seri Anwar

Ibrahim said he and other leaders have been in contact with Qatari Prime Minister Sheikh Mohammed Abdulrahman Al Thani and Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdogan to discuss the matter. – By QIRANA NABILLA MOHD RASHIDI

PETALING JAYA: All 23 Malaysians who joined the Global Sumud Flotilla (GSF) to deliver humanitarian aid to Gaza have been detained after Israeli forces intercepted their vessels, sparking sharp condemnation from Prime Minister Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim and other national leaders. Anwar denounced the interception as “intimidation and coercion” against a humanitarian mission carrying unarmed civilians and life-saving aid, demanding the immediate release of all detainees. “By blocking a humanitarian mission, Israel has shown utter contempt not only for the rights of the Palestinian people but also for the conscience of the world. The flotilla embodied solidarity, compassion and the hope of relief for those under blockade. “The safety and dignity of our people are paramount and we will not allow them to be compromised with impunity. As long as the Palestinian people are denied their fundamental rights and aspirations, Malaysia will stand unflinchingly with them. We will not relent in demanding an end to the injustice and dispossession that have plagued Palestine for generations,” he said. He confirmed that Putrajaya is engaging diplomatic channels to secure the release of Malaysians, Asean nationals and other international activists. “I have received information from our activist and volunteer team after the Zionist regime intercepted the convoy. I urge that all Malaysians and international activists be released immediately. Let us pray together that all detainees, especially Malaysians, remain safe and protected.” Earlier, during a livestream posted on Facebook, Anwar revealed he had reached out to US Secretary of State Marco Rubio to press for Washington’s intervention, stressing that the detainees had committed no crime. “Their only ‘offence’ was to act out of humanitarian concern – to help the weak, the hungry, the sick, including women and children.” Anwar reiterated Malaysia’s condemnation of Israel’s actions and renewed his call for an end to the ongoing siege of Gaza. “Once again, I pray that Israel’s cruelty will be brought to an end, that our friends will be freed and that humanitarian aid to Palestine can be delivered in its true and rightful form.” The GSF, which set sail with 10 vessels in total, carried international volunteers and basic supplies for Palestinians. Five ships attempted to reach Gaza, with Malaysians aboard one of them. This is not the first time Israel has intercepted flotillas carrying humanitarian aid, with previous missions also blocked despite involving only unarmed volunteers. Deputy Prime Minister Datuk Seri Dr Ahmad Zahid Hamidi also condemned Israel’s actions, calling them a blatant violation of Ű BY QIRANA NABILLA MOHD RASHIDI newsdesk@thesundaily.com

Malaysians detained by Israel

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o Anwar condemns interception of civilian convoy, says actions mock humanity and international law and vows to pursue all diplomatic channels for release of activists M’sians detained as Gaza flotilla halted by Israeli forces See also page 9

situation and working with the Prime Minister’s Office to assist affected Malaysians. Deputy Foreign Minister Datuk Mohamad Alamin said Wisma Putra is gathering information from multiple sources and liaising with relevant parties. “Wisma Putra will continually monitor this development and obtain as much information as possible. We are also working with the Prime Minister’s Office to assist Malaysians involved in the mission.” He assured that the government would do its utmost to support the families of those involved. “We are always monitoring the situation from

international law and human rights. “The flotilla carried aid and symbolised global solidarity with Palestinians, but it was met with intimidation and violence. This is tyranny against the people of Gaza and an affront to humanity. “Malaysia will continue pursuing legal channels to hold Israel accountable, especially to safeguard the lives of our volunteers.” Zahid stressed that the government places the highest priority on Malaysian lives and pledged solidarity with Palestine “until justice and freedom are achieved”. The Foreign Ministry, meanwhile, said it is closely monitoring the

vessels were intercepted by the Israeli navy. “All Hamas-Sumud passengers on their yachts have arrived safely in Israel, where deportation procedures to Europe will begin. The passengers are safe and in good health,” the ministry said on X. Meanwhile, Sumud Nusantara Command Centre director-general Datuk Dr Sani Araby Abdul Alim said those detained are believed to be safe and are being held on board their respective vessels. He said radio communications confirmed that the Israeli military had ordered the ships to divert from Gaza to an undisclosed location.

time to time. For now, we can only pray for the safety of our citizens.” Mohamad reaffirmed Malaysia’s position, stressing the country would not waver in opposing Israel’s actions and defending Palestinian rights. “Malaysia will not cease in making our stand known. We shall remain steadfast and committed. This is not a threat, but a warning that Malaysia will continue to stand with Palestine,” he said, adding that NGOs must provide regular updates on their activities and remain vigilant in high-risk zones. Israel’s Foreign Ministry confirmed yesterday that pro-Palestinian activists from the GSF, including Malaysians, will be deported to Europe after their

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Hidden plight of men facing domestic violence

Notions of masculinity

PETALING JAYA: Nearly one in four domestic violence victims in Malaysia is male, yet many still suffer in silence, according to Fathers’ Rights Association president and lawyer Malcolm Fernandez. “We hear from men every week,” he said, citing fresh police data showing 4,856 male victims in 2024 from 7,116 reported cases. He said the abuse goes far beyond physical assaults. “We are seeing coercive control, psychological abuse, economic and financial control, and even threats to deny access to their children.“ He said the Domestic Violence Act (DVA) 1994 is gender neutral, giving male and female victims the same rights to protection. “A victim could obtain an Emergency Protection Order (EPO) through a social welfare officer, designed to be issued within hours, followed by an Interim Protection Order (IPO) during investigations and a full Protection Order (PO) after charges are filed,” he said. Fernandez said the 2017 reforms broadened definitions of abuse and added the EPO mechanism, but gaps in enforcement remain. “Implementation is inconsistent. Men face limited shelters and services, patchy frontline awareness that EPOs apply to all genders and under-reporting driven by stigma. “Data systems also undercount male victims, which makes targeted services harder to fund.” He said cultural notions of masculinity are the biggest obstacle. “It is the single greatest brake on reporting. Many men fear they would not be believed or that disclosure would be used against them in family court. “Shame, disbelief and fear of ridicule are major hurdles. We see the same patterns worldwide.” He advised fathers facing violence to “get safe, now. If you are in danger, call 999 or 112, or leave the home with your children if needed”. “Document evidence discreetly, such as photos of injuries, threatening messages or medical notes. Seek an EPO through the Social Welfare Department. The law anticipates issuance within about two hours. “Make a police report and pursue an IPO or PO through the DVA. And get legal counsel early, especially if there are custody issues.” He called for male-inclusive crisis infrastructure, such as male-capable or gender-neutral shelters and counselling, as well as nationwide awareness drives on EPOs. In addition, he suggested standardised frontline training for police, medical staff and welfare officers on coercive control and male victimisation. “We need sex-disaggregated reporting on types of abuse and outcomes so that resources could be properly allocated. “Family courts should fast-track protection orders to align with safe interim parenting arrangements, minimising the risk of the process being weaponised against non-abusive parents,“ he said. – BY KIRTINEE RAMESH biggest factor in male silence

talking is not weakness.” He recommended mental health support in workplaces, as well as confidential counselling and training managers to spot changes in behaviour. “Some companies think staff wellbeing is only about performance. But if you care for employees as people, productivity follows.” His message is blunt – silence is dangerous. “Violence has no gender. If you are a man experiencing abuse, speak up. Report it. The law does not discriminate and help is available. “And to couples everywhere, if you want a loving partner, start by being one yourself. Do not manipulate or humiliate. When behaviour crosses the line, it is violence, no matter who commits it.” He said breaking the old belief that “boys do not cry” could save countless families from reaching a tragic boiling point.

could be taken out on the husband. At first, it may look like harmless venting, but it could become systematic abuse.” He said even housewives may lash out at their husbands if they feel isolated. “Violence is not about gender, it is about control.” Men’s reluctance to share emotions makes it worse. “Women, when hurt, often seek support. Men just want someone to listen. “But in busy offices, no one notices. Even the toughest guy could be suffering while appearing fine until he reaches a breaking point.” This emotional silence means that depression in men often goes undiagnosed. Zulfikar urged parents, employers and society to act. “Parents should let boys express feelings, the same way we encourage girls. Teach them early that crying or

o Psychological abuse far more common among male victims: Academic

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home, he may release frustration where he has power, perhaps towards subordinates. “That is how private pain becomes a workplace problem.” In rare but tragic cases, the pressure boils over. “We have seen men who, after years of psychological abuse, finally explode. “Some have even committed serious crimes. It is the burnout we fear most.” Zulfikar added that shifting family dynamics, with more Malaysian women in high-powered jobs, could create new fault lines. “Some wives forget that home life requires partnership, not hierarchy. “Workplace stress or ego clashes

PETALING JAYA: Domestic violence against men is a silent crisis in Malaysia, with many victims suffering humiliation and psychological abuse in secret until it erupts as depression, burnout or even violence, said Universiti Teknologi Malaysia senior psychology officer Dr Zulfikar Ahmad. “Men are naturally reserved. They keep problems to themselves,” he said. “Because of finance, ego and how they were raised, they rarely share. Only a few people ever know what is happening at home.” He said cultural expectations that men must always lead the family and appear strong leave victims ashamed to speak up. “When they finally do, people dismiss them: ‘You are a man, why can you not handle it?’” He stressed that while most picture domestic violence as physical, psychological abuse is far more common among male victims. “Bruises are easy to see. What men hide is constant humiliation, coercion and emotional manipulation. “When they try to report it, society’s disbelief becomes a second wound.” The abuse often starts small, such as belittling or public humiliation that escalates when left unchecked. He added that victims may first show subtle warning signs, such as reduced productivity, procrastination or burnout at work. “When a person lacks authority at

Zulfikar said cultural

expectations that men must always lead the family and appear strong leave victims ashamed to speak up. – AMIRUL SYAFIQ /THESUN

30,000 spousal abuse cases recorded since 2021 PETALING JAYA: More than 30,000 Malaysians have suffered domestic violence in the past five years, with men making up over a quarter of the victims, according to official data from the Women, Family and Community Development Ministry. Its minister Datuk Seri taken seriously and those affected are supported via legal, counselling and protection mechanisms. Nancy said while most crisis shelters cater to women and children, the ministry, through the Social Welfare Department, provides temporary safe spaces for men. “Plans are underway to The National Population and Family Development Board is also stepping up its role in men’s health and family support through wellbeing clinics for men, fertility treatment and the SmartStart marriage preparation programme. Other initiatives, such as

are still focused on women, her ministry is shifting to a more holistic approach. “Our campaigns are inclusive. They are designed to highlight domestic violence as an issue that affects both genders, while also dismantling stigma and raising awareness of human rights and family wellbeing.” She reminded impacted individuals that help is available through Talian Kasih 15999, its WhatsApp channel at 019-261 5999, police stations, Social Welfare Department offices and 24-hour One Stop Crisis Centres in government hospitals. “Domestic violence is not a private matter but a crime. No victim should suffer in silence. Every individual, whether man or woman, deserves to live free from fear and violence. “The ministry is committed to working with communities, agencies and the public to foster a culture of respect, compassion and zero tolerance for abuse in Malaysia.” – BY KIRTINEE RAMESH

Parenting@Work, IlmuKeluarga@LPPKN and SmartBelanja, aim to strengthen family resilience, financial literacy and emotional wellbeing. “These are part of our broader strategy to support not just women, but men and families as a whole,” said Nancy. Launched in 2021, the Skuad Waja volunteer initiative has grown to more than 339,000 members nationwide, with over 22% of them being men. Volunteers are trained as first responders to violence in their communities, offering immediate psychosocial support and referrals. Nancy said while flagship campaigns, such as Aku Wanita@KRT and Ending Violence Against Women,

Nancy Shukri revealed that between 2021 and June, police recorded 30,399 cases nationwide, involving 22,189 women and 8,210 men. “The numbers clearly show that while women remain the majority of victims, men are also coming forward to report abuse. “Domestic violence is not a private matter but a crime that has devastating consequences for individuals, families and society.” Over the same period, 4,610 cases were heard in court, resulting in 1,646 convictions. She stressed that every report is investigated according to the law. The Domestic Violence Act 1994 provides equal protection to male and female individuals. Every case is

strengthen such facilities under the Eliminate Violence Against Women Intervention Centre initiative, which would expand services in partnership with NGOs and community groups.” She said stigma remains a major barrier for men. “We must break the cultural barrier that discourages men from reporting abuse. No one should feel ashamed to seek help.” The ministry has rolled out advocacy and counselling programmes that highlight inclusivity while the Women’s Development Department has introduced initiatives such as Program Matahari, Program IRIS and Skuad Waja, alongside psycho-education workshops.

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are eligible for subsidised RON95 petrol at RM1.99 per litre, with a monthly allocation of up to 300 litres. “Every government initiative would naturally undergo improvements from time to time. In this case, we are looking at possible enhancements based on outcomes from the implementation of past measures,” said Nor Azmie, responding to issues concerning private vehicle owners without valid driving licences. – Bernama BANGI: For 243 prison inmates, yesterday was not just another day behind bars as it was graduation day. With scrolls in hand and families looking on, they were celebrated as graduates of the Malaysia Skills Certificate programme, proving that even behind prison gates, second chances can be written. They received certification at the fourth convocation ceremony organised by the Solid Waste Management and Public Cleansing Corporation (SWCorp). Housing and Local Government Minister Nga Kor Ming, who officiated at the event, said the initiative underlines the Madani government’s belief that rehabilitation works best when offenders are given skills and dignity. “We have produced 1,100 graduates through this initiative. Some of these inmates were jailed for minor offences, not hard crimes. This ceremony brings hope to their families,” he said. The training, conducted at 18 prison vocational centres between August 2024 and April 2025, covered Level Two public cleansing operations, from street-sweeping and drain-clearing to grass-cutting and toilet upkeep. Graduates did not just gain skills, they also received a monthly RM500 allowance. Nga said this proved the government’s seriousness in preparing inmates for employment after release. With certification, they are eligible to apply for jobs with concession companies and local councils. “Inmates get a new lease on life while the country reduces its dependence on foreign workers in the cleaning sector.” He also said Selangor and Penang would enforce the Solid Waste and Public Cleansing Management Act 2007 next year, shifting responsibility for cleansing services from local councils to federal oversight via SWCorp. Other states are expected to follow, raising demand for certified local workers. “If they are not given a second chance, the risk of reoffending grows and society pays the price. But with skills, they could walk out with hope instead of a record that drags them back in,” he said. Nga pointed to early signs of success, noting that from the first intake in 2023, 258 inmates have graduated and seven secured jobs with concessionaires. “Although the numbers are small, many are still in custody. But this proves that the programme works. The opportunities are there once they are free,” he said. He urged the public to value cleaning work, noting that it is a profession that uses modern tools and deserves respect. The initiative also feeds into Malaysia’s bigger ambitions, lifting the skilled workforce to 35% by 2030. “To the graduates, your journey does not end here,” Nga told the audience. Prisoners graduate from certification programme Ű BY FAIZ RUZMAN newsdesk@thesundaily.com

o Economists advise trimming subsidies for wealthy, redirecting cash to vulnerable groups

groups, as examples of efficient allocation. “Such programmes reduce leakage, allowing funds to be reallocated from less impactful areas while still protecting the vulnerable,” he said. Idham noted that Malaysia’s 4% fiscal deficit remains within a sustainable range, especially with debt at around 60% of GDP. “As long as deficits are tied to productive investments, such as digital infrastructure or education, they are more defensible than recurring operating costs,” he said. He also called for subsidy rationalisation, citing fuel subsidies for luxury cars and electricity subsidies for high-use households as areas that should be trimmed. “Redirecting those savings into cash transfers would shield lower-income groups while improving efficiency,” he said. But he cautioned against sudden cuts to essential items, such as cooking oil, rice, healthcare and public transport. “These are highly sensitive. Any reforms must be phased in with proper compensation,” he said. Idham suggested moderate taxes on luxury goods, high-end property and foreign digital platforms, while exempting local SMEs. “If done right, such measures could start contributing to the budget within a year.”

subsidies for the wealthy, corporations and non-citizens, with savings redirected into direct cash transfers for lower and middle-income families. She said the current 4% deficit is still manageable, provided the government follows a gradual fiscal consolidation plan. “The danger comes if we keep spending without a roadmap. Once debt crosses 70% of GDP, we are in risky territory,” she warned. She stressed that, while supporting subsidy rationalisation, aid in food, healthcare and education must remain intact. “Cutting back in these areas would harm poor families and risk triggering dissatisfaction,” she said. Nik Maheran proposed expanding the sales tax to luxury goods, raising excise duties on alcohol, tobacco and sugary drinks, and tightening digital tax collection via e-invoicing. “These could deliver returns within months,” she said, adding that wealth or dividend taxes for the ultra-rich should be explored. Universiti Teknologi Mara senior lecturer Dr Mohamad Idham Md Razak shared similar views, saying financial aid could continue without worsening debt if it is carefully targeted. He pointed to initiatives such as Budi95, which uses digital ID verification to channel fuel subsidies to lower and middle-income

Ű BY IKHWAN ZULKAFLEE newsdesk@thesundaily.com

PETALING JAYA: Malaysia could continue providing financial aid without worsening its debt burden, but only if reforms and targeted policies are in place, economists say. Universiti Malaysia Kelantan entrepreneurship and business professor Datuk Dr Nik Maheran Nik Muhammad noted that while the economy is expanding, the federal budget remains under strain. Public debt has crossed 60% of GDP, with last year’s fiscal deficit at about 4%. “The key lies in smarter, targeted spending. For years, billions have gone into blanket subsidies, such as cheap fuel, which benefit high-income earners and even foreigners. That is not sustainable.” She urged trimming energy and fuel Crowds celebrate wedding procession of Selangor prince KLANG: Echoes of “Daulat Tuanku!” and congratulatory banners filled the air as the wedding procession of Selangor Raja Muda Tengku Amir Shah Sultan Sharafuddin Idris Shah took place here yesterday. From as early as 6am, crowds gathered along the streets to witness the historic union of the Selangor crown prince with his bride Cik Afzaa Fadini Abdul Aziz. Tengku Amir Shah, attired in a white traditional outfit and songkok , was escorted in a car along a 650m route from the Sultan Abdul Aziz Royal Gallery to Istana Alam Shah. He was accompanied by members of the royal family and palace dignitaries, with the 25th Battalion of the Royal Malay Regiment serving as escorts while the Selangor Royal Palace kompang troupe enlivened the procession. The parade began with a prayer recital by Sultan Salahuddin Abdul Aziz Shah Mosque grand imam Datuk Muhammad Farhan Wijaya, seeking blessings for the solemnisation ceremony. During the 20-minute procession, people of various races took the opportunity to capture the occasion, many clad in traditional attire, such as baju Melayu and batik, as a mark of respect. – Bernama

The royal marriage being solemnised at Istana Alam Shah in Klang. – BERNAMAPIC

Ministry may extend petrol subsidy to e-hailing sector KUALA LUMPUR: The Economy Ministry has not ruled out the possibility of expanding Budi Madani RON95 (Budi95) quotas for the e-hailing sector during the tabling of Budget 2026 next week. additional quota) would be announced based on other decisions, which would be made by the government soon, maybe under Budget 2026,” said Economy Ministry Secretary-General Datuk Nor Azmie Diron. would work with e-hailing operators to process applications in bulk. The government has also extended Budi95 eligibility to water transport, covering registered boat owners without requiring a valid boating licence.

He was speaking to reporters after launching the Junior Innovathon programme here yesterday. In a recent statement, the Finance Ministry said e-hailing drivers would not need to apply for Budi95 individually. Instead, the government

On Wednesday, the Finance Ministry announced that full-time e-hailing drivers would be granted additional eligibility for the Budi95 petrol subsidy, starting Oct 15. “The discussion on Budi95 would continue as announced by the prime minister. (The

Budi95 was rolled out in phases beginning Sept 27, starting with 300,000 members of the Armed Forces and police. Some 16 million Malaysians aged 16 and above with a MyKad and a valid driving licence

FRIDAY | OCT 3, 2025 5 41 detained in raids on nightspots KUALA LUMPUR: Immigration officers uncovered a ploy to misuse domestic helper passes after detaining 41 people, including foreign women working illegally as guest relations officers (GRO), in midnight raids on luxury entertainment outlets in Sri Hartamas. The operation, codenamed Ops Gegar, followed a month of surveillance that revealed the outlets employed undocumented migrants and foreign workers in breach of their passes. Kuala Lumpur Immigration director Wan Mohammed Saupee Wan Yusoff said of 63 people inspected, nine Vietnamese women, 22 Thai women, eight Bangladeshi men and two local men, believed to be managers, were taken into custody. “Most of the women had entered on maid passes but abused them by working as GRO and drinking companions. We also found price sashes used to charge customers between RM100 and RM500 for the GRO of their choice,” he said. The foreigners are being investigated for overstaying, breaching pass conditions and failing to produce valid documents, while the two locals will be probed for employing and harbouring undocumented migrants. Wan Mohammed Saupee also warned of fraudsters posing as immigration officers in the aftermath of such raids, targeting employers of detained workers. “These individuals claim they can secure the release of detainees for a fee. It is pure fraud – the Immigration Department will not accept money or violate the law to free detainees,” he said, citing a recent case in which an employer almost lost RM32,000 after being approached with such an offer. In other scams, demands ranged between RM5,000 and RM15,000. – Bernama Agency revokes licence of lorry firm KUALA LUMPUR: The Land Public Transport Agency has revoked the operating licence of a lorry company involved in a fatal accident at the Bukit Kajang toll plaza, effective yesterday. In a statement, the agency said investigations found the company had failed to instal a Global Positioning System device on the lorry and had neglected the safety of other road users. The revocation was carried out under Section 62 of the Land Public Transport Act 2010, prohibiting the company from operating or providing services. “The agency stresses that it will not compromise in cases involving dangerous driving of public transport vehicles which could lead to accidents and endanger lives,” it said. The agency also reminded all licensed operators to comply fully with safety requirements or risk losing their licences. On Sept 27, a lorry suspected of having brake failure ploughed into a car and two sport utility vehicles at the toll plaza, killing a toddler boy and injuring seven others. – Bernama “The ministry’s priority now is to provide psychosocial and emotional support for the students and teachers, while giving the boy’s family space and privacy. We express our condolences and deep sorrow over this incident,” she said. The case has raised concern as it comes just days after a nine-year-old pupil died after falling into an uncovered manhole at a school in Lenggeng, also in Negeri Sembilan.

Love and laughter mark Boyfriend Day celebration

o Social media users mark occasion by sharing touching, humorous moments that defined their relationships

Ű BY KIRTINEE RAMESH newsdesk@thesundaily.com

PETALING JAYA: From grand gestures to small acts of thoughtfulness, boyfriends are in the spotlight today as the world marks Boyfriend Day, a playful social media event that has evolved into a trending celebration of love, loyalty and laughter. On Reddit, users joined the conversation by sharing their “this is the moment I knew” stories, with responses ranging from comic to deeply moving. One user, @Conscious_Law_8647, recounted a stunt that could have come from a horror film. After his girlfriend returned from a trip to Thailand, he hid under her bed with only a flower. When she finally walked in, he grabbed her ankle and shouted, “Got ya!” She screamed before realising it was him. He later joked online: “Apparently, true love isn’t a valid legal defence. Wish me luck at trial tomorrow.” Others described quieter gestures. User @elrin00 recounted how her boyfriend sneaked a new hair dryer under her car seat after pretending to take a bathroom break. Despite driving an old car with faulty headlights, he always turned up for her, even bringing milk after a late shift when she had casually mentioned craving it. For @Cutbull22, love was in words. She said she always thought her brown eyes were plain until her boyfriend often told her, “Your eyes are so beautiful.” His sincerity, she said, made her blush every time. Similarly, @ZestyLebron recounted her partner’s thoughtfulness, such as tidying their hotel room unprompted while she was in the shower. “I see nobody but him as my future husband,” she wrote. Some found love through vulnerability. @United_Marzipan943, recovering from a toxic relationship, told her new boyfriend she was still in pieces. His reply stayed with her. “I will pick up your shreds and glue them one by one carefully. I will beautify your scars.” But not all stories were worthy of a romance novel. @Crafty_Car_1721 described a disastrous

A woman giving a bouquet of flowers to her boyfriend in conjunction with Boyfriend Day. – SYED AZAHAR SYED OSMAN/THESUN

Others highlighted effort as the truest expression of love. User @Woshiyaohui taught himself embroidery from YouTube tutorials just to craft a framed birthday gift for his then-girlfriend. “It wasn’t perfect,” he admitted. “But I tried my best.” From comic surprises under the bed to heartfelt compliments and handmade gifts, these stories show romance wears many faces – sometimes playful, sometimes tender, but always meaningful.

first date with a man who looked nothing like his photos, sulked after bumping a car, then blocked her afterwards. “He still owes me for the food,” she quipped. Even small mishaps could spark feelings of affection. @Mntt said she was once locked out of a cinema during a horror movie, only to see her boyfriend frantically searching for her. “It wasn’t a big deal, but the fact he noticed and came to rescue me felt like a movie moment,” she said.

Pupil dies after being found unconscious in school toilet SEREMBAN: A 10-year-old Year Four pupil was found unconscious in a school toilet in Senawang, Negeri Sembilan, on Wednesday before being rushed to a private medical centre, where he was later pronounced dead. boy had left his classroom at 12.10pm. He was later found unconscious within the school grounds. The victim was rushed to the medical centre by the school’s disciplinary teacher but was confirmed dead by the attending doctor,” he said in a statement. An autopsy will be conducted at the Rembau Hospital to determine the cause of death. He also urged the public not to speculate or spread unverified information, Bernama reported. the ministry is committed to providing full cooperation with the ongoing investigation. The public is also advised not to speculate and to respect the privacy of the pupil’s family at this time,” she said in a Facebook post.

Education Minister Fadhlina Sidek said the ministry has left the matter to police for a transparent and thorough investigation. “This matter is currently under police investigation. I assure you that

She added that psychosocial and emotional support interventions have been activated to safeguard the wellbeing of pupils, teachers and the school community.

Negeri Sembilan police chief Datuk Alzafny Ahmad said a report was received at 1.19pm while the victim was undergoing treatment. “Based on initial information, the

Alzafny said the case has been classified under Section 507C of the Penal Code, which criminalises threatening and abusive behaviour.

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Cancer survivor recounts journey of grit

KUALA LUMPUR: What began as a routine health check-up turned into a life-changing moment for Tengku Nazeehah Tengku Mahmood, who had always enjoyed good health with no underlying illnesses. But to the 46-year-old homemaker’s shock, she was diagnosed with colorectal cancer. “My case was a little different because I had no symptoms at all. In April 2021, I underwent a colonoscopy and endoscopy, simply because I had entered my 40s. Honestly, I didn’t even know what colorectal cancer was. When the doctor told me the news, I was completely stunned. “I couldn’t believe it, especially since I had no signs like changes in bowel habits, diarrhoea, constipation, changes in stool consistency, or unexplained weight loss,” she told Bernama. After the colonoscopy, doctors found a blockage in her rectum and took a biopsy. A CT scan the next day confirmed it was stage three colorectal cancer. The mother of three said she struggled to process the diagnosis, especially since she had no family history of the disease. “I remember looking at my husband… his face had gone pale and he was in shock. In our society, stage three or four cancer is often seen as a death sentence.” Refusing to give in, Tengku Nazeehah sought treatment at Universiti Malaya Medical Centre. After more than four years during which she has underwent surgery, chemotherapy and radiotherapy – she is now a cancer survivor. “I only see my colorectal and oncology specialists once a year. I do a CT scan annually and a colonoscopy every three years,” she said, adding that the unwavering support of her husband and children kept her strong. Through her ordeal, she found purpose as a cancer awareness advocate. Today, she is active in the Colorectal Cancer Survivorship Society Malaysia and trained by the National Cancer Council Malaysia as a peer-support volunteer, regularly sharing her journey with patients. o Initially stunned by diagnosis, mother of three forged ahead with treatment buffered by family support

records 4,000 to 4,500 new cases a year, compared with 3,500 to 4,000 a decade ago. Alarmingly, most are detected at stage three or four. Nurhashim encouraged regular screening even before symptoms appear. “Screening allows us to detect cancer early. Colorectal cancer often begins with small growths in the intestine called polyps. Each polyp has a 30% to 40% chance of developing into cancer. If we find and remove them early, we can prevent cancer altogether,” he said. The faecal occult blood (FOB) test, which detects hidden blood in stool samples, is a simple first step. If results are positive, further tests such as colonoscopy are required. “Those aged above 45, or with a family history of cancer, should take the FOB test,” he advised. As for treatment, colorectal cancer usually involves surgery and chemotherapy. Despite medical advances, colorectal cancer remains a sensitive subject in Malaysia as it involves bowel habits and stool. “Many people feel embarrassed to talk about stool or rectal symptoms, so they delay seeking help. Some confuse colorectal cancer symptoms with haemorrhoids, which can cause bleeding and mucus but are not life threatening. The danger is when people dismiss warning signs as haemorrhoids when it is actually cancer,” Nurhashim cautioned. He recounted the case of a 60-year-old patient who ignored bloody stools for almost a year, believing it was “just piles.” By the time he sought help, he was pale, had low haemoglobin levels and was diagnosed with colorectal cancer. “If the abdomen becomes bloated and the patient can no longer pass stool or gas, the intestine may rupture. Once this happens and stool leaks out, it can be fatal, requiring immediate surgery. “Colorectal cancer can be prevented if detected and treated early. Patients then have a much better chance of recovery and survival,” he said, while advising adults in the risk age group to maintain a healthy lifestyle, exercise regularly, avoid smoking and alcohol, and prevent obesity. “Those with a family history of colorectal cancer, or anyone concerned about their risks, should see a doctor for screening. If you experience symptoms such as bloody or stools with mucus or changes in bowel habits, seek medical attention immediately.”

In Malaysia, 4,000 to 4,500 new cases of colorectal cancer are recorded yearly, compared with 3,500 to 4,000 a decade ago. – SYED AZAHAR SYED OSMAN/THESUN

increase from 11.1% previously. Nurhashim said colorectal cancer may show no symptoms in its early stages. However, bleeding is often the most common warning sign. Other red flags include: 0 changes in bowel habits (more frequent or less frequent defaecation); 0 recurring abdominal pain; 0 stool changes (constipation, hard pellet-like stools, stools with blood or mucus); and 0 unexplained weight loss and decrease in appetite. He added that individuals aged 45 and above are at higher risk, especially those with a family history of colorectal cancer. “A decade ago, the higher-risk group was 50 and older. But now, even those in their mid-40s are getting this cancer,” he said, adding Malaysia

Colorectal cancer is the second most common cancer in Malaysia after breast cancer. KPJ Tawakkal Specialist Hospital general surgeon and colorectal cancer specialist Dr Nurhashim Haron said it develops in the large intestine, specifically the colon and rectum. “Cancer occurs when abnormal cells grow and multiply uncontrollably. Normally, cells in our body live for two to three weeks before dying and shedding naturally. The same applies to the intestinal lining. But when cells grow without dying, that’s when cancer forms,” he explained. Cases are rising in Malaysia. Data from the National Cancer Registry showed colorectal cancer accounted for 18.8% of cancer cases among men between 2017 and 2021, compared with 14.8% during the 2012 to 2016 period. Among women, it made up 13.7% of cases, an

FRIDAY | OCT 3, 2025 7 S. Korea apologises for adoption malpractice SEOUL: South Korean President Lee Jae Myung apologised yesterday for the first time over state-sanctioned malpractices that involved sending tens of thousands of children overseas for adoption, adding that “unjust human rights violations” were committed. An official inquiry held the government accountable earlier this year for facilitating adoptions through fraudulent practices, including falsifying documents and switching identities. The country, now Asia’s fourth-largest economy and a global cultural powerhouse, was for decades one of the world’s biggest exporters of children, having sent more than 140,000 overseas for adoption between 1955 and 1999. International adoptions began after the 1950-1953 Korean War as a way to remove mixed-race children, born to local mothers and American GI fathers, from a society that emphasised ethnic homogeneity. “Recent court rulings and investigations by the Truth and Reconciliation Commission have revealed that in some cases, unjust human rights violations occurred during overseas adoption procedures,“ Lee said in a statement. “At such times, the state did not fully meet its responsibilities. On behalf of the Republic of Korea, I offer my heartfelt apology and words of comfort to overseas adoptees, their families and their birth families who have endured suffering.” Overseas adoption became a big business in South Korea in the 1970s and 1980s, generating millions of dollars for international adoption agencies as the country emerged from post-war poverty and pursued rapid economic development. – AFP Vietnam typhoon casualties reach 36 HANOI: A government disaster management agency stated in a report yesterday the death toll in Vietnam from Typhoon Bualoi and the floods it triggered has risen to 36. Bualoi made landfall on Monday in northern central Vietnam, bringing huge sea swells, strong winds and heavy rains that also left 21 people missing and injured 147 others, according to the report. The agency also raised its estimate of property damage caused by the typhoon and its flooding to 11.5 trillion dong (RM238.5 million). The typhoon severely damaged roads, schools and offices, and caused power grid failures that left tens of thousands of families without electricity, the report said. More than 210,000 houses were damaged or inundated, and more than 51,000 hectares of rice and other crops were destroyed. – Reuters Beatles fan among hopefuls for PM post TOKYO: The photogenic son of a former premier, a hardline nationalist hoping to become Japan’s first woman prime minister and an experienced, Beatles-loving moderate are leading the race to take the country’s highest political post. Shinjiro Koizumi, 44, is the son of a popular former prime minister who commands constant media attention with his cleancut image and reformist pledges. Sanae Takaichi, 64, is a popular nationalist who is known for her hardline attitude towards China, although she has softened her rhetoric in the current LDP race in an apparent attempt to expand her support base. Takaichi has focused her policy messages on strengthening national defence and economic security. Yoshimasa Hayashi, 64, served as the chief Cabinet secretary for two successive moderate prime ministers and is also a Beatles fan who plays in a band with fellow politicians. – AFP

Philippines earthquake death toll rises to 72

BOGO: Rescuers said the death toll from a powerful earthquake in central Philippines rose to 72 yesterday, as officials turned their efforts to the hundreds injured and thousands left homeless. Firefighters pulled a woman and her child from the rubble of a collapsed hotel on Wednesday in the city of Bogo, near the epicentre of the 6.9-magnitude quake that struck on Tuesday. The body of another woman was also retrieved from the site earlier, AFP reported. The government said 294 people were injured and about 20,000 had fled their homes. Nearly 600 houses were wrecked across the north of Cebu island and many are sleeping on the streets as hundreds of aftershocks shake the area. Cebu provincial governor Pamela Baricuatro made several urgent appeals for help on Thursday, adding that thousands are o 294 injured, 20,000 flee homes and 600 houses destroyed, says govt

a long time.” Many areas remain without electricity and dozens of patients were sheltering in tents outside the Cebu provincial hospital in Bogo. “I would rather stay here under this tent. At least I can be treated,” said 22-year-old Kyle Malait as she waited for her dislocated arm to be treated. More than 110,000 people in 42 communities affected by the quake would need assistance to rebuild their homes and restore their livelihoods, according to the regional civil defence office. Search and rescue efforts appeared to be winding down in Bogo as of yesterday. “As of now, all those who were reported missing were already found,” said Cebu fire bureau official Liewellyn Lee Quino. Rescuers were sent to re-check a collapsed hotel hours after three bodies were retrieved. “The final check is important so that we can assure the community that no one is forgotten inside these establishments, and that they could choose to destroy this place completely (for redevelopment).” Earthquakes are a near-daily occurrence in the Philippines, which is situated on the Pacific “Ring of Fire”, a seismic activity zone stretching from Japan through Southeast Asia and across the Pacific basin. – AFP

in need of safe drinking water, food, clothes and temporary housing, as well as volunteers to sort and distribute aid. “Many homes were destroyed and many families are in need of help to recover. They need our help, prayers and support.“ President Ferdinand Marcos flew to Cebu with senior aides yesterday to inspect the damage and coordinate relief efforts. He did not immediately speak to the press. A village chapel is serving as a post-quake home for 18-year-old Bogo resident Diane Madrigal and 14 of her neighbours after their houses were destroyed. “The entire wall (of my house) fell, so I really do not know how and when we can go back again,” Madrigal said. “I am still scared of the aftershocks, it feels like we have to run again.” Mother-of-four Lucille Ipil, 43, added her water container to a 10-metre queue of similar containers along a road in Bogo, where residents desperately waited for a fire truck scheduled to bring them water. “The earthquake really ruined our lives. Water is important for everyone. We cannot eat, drink or bathe properly.” “We really want to go back to our old life before the quake, but we don’t know when that would happen. Rebuilding takes

Indonesian rescuers race to save trapped students SIDOARJO: Disaster authorities said yesterday rescuers were racing against time to extricate about 60 teenagers trapped under the remains of an Islamic boarding school in East Java that collapsed earlier this week due to foundation failure. trapped under the rubble, based on the school’s list of absence and missing person reports filed by families. Search and rescue agency official Nanang Sigit said rescuers are still assessing whether there are signs of life by calling out the names of the students, having found no such signs on Wednesday. agency said yesterday it was still at five. “We cannot let our minds wander. Maybe there is still hope for (them to be found alive),“ Bramantyo said. An excavator and a crane were on-site to help rescuers shift the debris, but disaster officials ruled out their use for fear it could set off a wider collapse. Al Khoziny is an Islamic school known locally as a pesantren . DRAMATIC DISPLAY ... Hindu devotees dressed as deities Krishna and his consort Radha take part in a procession to celebrate the Maha Navami festival on the occasion of the Dussehra-Vijaya Dashami festival in Amritsar, India. – AFPPIC

The Al Khoziny school, located in town of Sidoarjo about 480 miles east from the capital Jakarta, collapsed when its foundations could not support ongoing construction work on the upper floors, trapping dozens of students under rubble. Disaster mitigation agency spokesperson Abdul Muhari said in a statement yesterday 59 individuals remained

He added that the assessment would be used to determine further evacuation efforts. Search and rescue operations director Yudhi Bramantyo said on Wednesday the total death toll from the collapse had reached six, although the country’s disaster mitigation

Indonesia has a total of about 42,000 such schools, serving seven million students, according to data from the country’s religious affairs ministry. – Reuters

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US will defend Qatar: Trump

“Russia will continue and we have to be ready, we have to strengthen our preparedness,” Finnish Prime Minister Petteri Orpo said. The commission, the EU’s executive body, has not yet produced a detailed plan for the drone wall, leaving open questions about the cost and practicalities. Von der Leyen said Europe’s eastern flank would be a priority, due to its distance to Russia. Italian Prime Minister Giorgia Meloni said Europe’s southern borders should also not be neglected amid the focus on the EU’s eastern flank, while French President Emmanuel Macron called for a comprehensive approach to the drone threat. Russia has denied responsibility for the drones over Denmark, disputed that its fighter jets entered Estonian airspace and said it did not intend to send drones into Poland. – Reuters US$26b Democractic funds withheld WASHINGTON: US President Donald Trump’s administration on Wednesday froze US$26 billion (RM109.3 billion) for Democratic leaning states, following through on a threat to use the government shutdown to target Democratic priorities. The targeted programs included US$18 billion for transit projects in New York, home to Congress’s top two Democrats, and US$8 billion for green-energy projects in 16 Democratic-run states, including California and Illinois. Vice-President JD Vance said the administration might extend its purge of federal workers if the shutdown lasts more than a few days. The moves made clear that Trump would carry out his threat to take advantage of the shutdown to punish his political opponents and extend his control over the US$7 trillion federal budget, established by the US Constitution as the domain of Congress. “Billions of dollars could be saved,” he wrote on Truth Social late on Wednesday. The government shutdown, the 15th since 1981, suspended scientific research, financial oversight, environmental cleanup efforts and a wide range of other activities. About 750,000 federal workers were ordered not to work, while others, such as troops and Border Patrol agents, began to work without pay. The Veterans Affairs Department said it would provide burials at national cemeteries, but would not erect headstones or mow the grass. Vance said at a White House briefing the administration would be forced to resort to layoffs if the shutdown lasts more than a few days, adding to the 300,000 individuals who would be pushed out by December. Previous shutdowns have not resulted in permanent layoffs. The US Patent and Trademark Office said it would lay off 1% of its 14,000 employees, according to an internal letter. Leading democrat Hakeem Jeffries said the funding freeze for subway and harbour projects in his home of New York would throw thousands out of work. Republican Senator Thom Tillis said he was concerned that the freezing of infrastructure funds for New York could make it harder for Congress to exit the shutdown. Jeffries said he had not had any contact with the White House since a meeting with Trump earlier in the week. Meanwhile, the Senate again rejected efforts to keep the government functioning as both a Republican proposal that would fund the government through Nov 21 and a Democratic vote that would pair funding with additional health benefits failed in floor votes. The longest US government shutdown on record lasted more than 35 days. – Reuters

o Executive order comes after Israeli airstrike on Doha

defence pact with nuclear-armed Pakistan. While the president could negotiate collective defence treaties such as the one that created Nato, it requires Senate confirmation to become law. An executive order could be repealed by any US president in the future and it is unclear what would compel the US to fulfil the commitment. Trump’s order goes beyond a 2022 order by his predecessor Joe Biden that designated Qatar as a major non-Nato ally, allowing increased military cooperation but falling short of promising to defend Qatar if attacked. There was no US military response when Qatar came under attack by Iran in June after a US strike on nuclear facilities in Iran. The Trump administration in May officially accepted a luxury Boeing 747 jetliner as a gift from Qatar and the military is working to prepare it for use as a new Air Force One to transport the president. Trump dismissed legal and ethical concerns over the plane’s transfer. Secretary of State Marco Rubio visited Doha after the Israeli strike, and said an enhanced defence cooperation agreement was being finalised with Qatar. – Reuters

The document was dated Monday, the day Trump hosted Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu at the White House and presented a proposal for ending the war in Gaza. Qatar has been a key mediator between the US and Israel and Hamas over the war. “The United States shall regard any armed attack on the territory, sovereignty, or critical infrastructure of the State of Qatar as a threat to the peace and security of the United States,” the order said. “In the event of such an attack, the United States shall take all lawful and appropriate measures, including diplomatic, economic and, if necessary, military, to defend the interests of the United States and of the State of Qatar and to restore peace and stability.” The document said top US defence and intelligence officials would maintain contingency planning with Qatar to ensure a rapid response to any attacks. Neighbouring Saudi Arabia has long sought similar guarantees as part of Washington’s efforts to normalise relations between Riyadh and Israel, but such a deal has not materialised. Last month, Saudi Arabia signed a mutual

WASHINGTON: US President Donald Trump has pledged to treat any armed attack on Qatar as a threat to the United States’ own security, according to a document published on Wednesday that says US forces could step in to defend the Middle Eastern nation. The Qatar Foreign Ministry on Wednesday welcomed Trump’s order, describing it as a milestone in strengthening defence ties and bilateral cooperation. The executive order, which appears to significantly deepen the US commitment to Qatar, comes after Israel last month attempted to kill leaders of Hamas with an airstrike on Doha. That strike, launched with little advance notice to the Trump administration, caused consternation in Washington given the close its relationship with Qatar, which hosts the largest US military base in the region. French navy arrests ‘shadow fleet’ crew BREST: France has detained two senior crew members of a tanker linked to Russia, which data showed was off the Danish coast last month during mysterious drone flights, prosecutors said on Wednesday. The Boracay , a Benin-flagged vessel blacklisted by the European Union for being part of Russia’s sanction-busting “shadow fleet” of ageing oil tankers, was stationed off Denmark from Sept 22 to Sept 25, according to ship tracking data. Drones have been sighted across Denmark, including over military sites, since Sept 22, prompting brief closures at several airports and a ban on all civilian drone flights until Friday. Brest prosecutor Stephane Kellenberger said on Wednesday two crew members, who presented themselves as the ship’s captain and his first mate, had been taken into custody. A military source, asking not to be named, told AFP the vessel had been boarded on Saturday, with a government source confirming the boarding. President Emmanuel Macron said France was probing the ship for “serious offences”, but stopped short of confirming reports of a connection to the Denmark drone flights. The EU has sanctioned hundreds of ageing tankers used by Russia to circumvent oil export curbs imposed after the 2022 invasion of Ukraine. – AFP

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EU leaders back move to bolster drone defences COPENHAGEN: European Union (EU) leaders backed plans on Wednesday to bolster the bloc’s defences against Russian drones as they met in Copenhagen days after airspace intrusions by unmanned aircraft rattled Denmark. European authorities have accused Russia of violations of the region’s airspace, including with recent incursions by drones over Poland and fighter jets over Estonia. Russia as a major threat to their continent’s security following Moscow’s 2022 invasion of Ukraine and have accelerated efforts to strengthen their defences. Denmark has stopped short of saying who it believes is responsible for the incidents in its own airspace last week, which disrupted air traffic at multiple airports, but Frederiksen has suggested it could be Moscow.

country have been banned until Friday. Von der Leyen called last month for what she described as a “drone wall”, a network of sensors and weapons to detect, track and neutralise intruding unmanned aircraft. Her suggestion came just hours after some 20 Russian drones entered Polish airspace, although officials say it had already been under consideration. The incursion into Poland exposed gaps in Europe’s ability to defend itself against drones, officials and analysts said. Nato forces deployed fighter jets, helicopters and a Patriot air defence system in their response, shooting down several drones. Nato Secretary-General Mark Rutte this week praised the drone wall idea as “timely and necessary” and EU leaders voiced support in Copenhagen on Wednesday.

US President Donald Trump has long demanded that Europe take more responsibility for its own security and for Ukraine. “Russia tries to test us. But Russia also tries to sow division and anxiety in our societies. We will not let this happen,“ European Commission chief Ursula von der Leyen said. The summit’s security was reinforced by troops and anti-drone systems sent by other European countries. All drone flights over the

“Europe must be able to defend itself,” Danish Prime Minister Mette Frederiksen said after the European Political Community (EPC) summit. “We need to strengthen our production of drones, of anti-drone capabilities and this includes building up a European network of anti-drone measures that could protect and neutralise intrusion from outside.” The incidents in Europe’s airspace highlighted how EU leaders have come to view