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being judged and to be gently challenged when we are hiding from our power. Walking out of the cafe, a goodie bag in hand and my head buzzing, I felt both energised and exposed. The tarot reading didn’t give me direct answers. It gave me questions I had long avoided, truths I hadn’t wanted to name. But in that discomfort was also a kind of freedom. I realised that career clarity doesn’t always look like a LinkedIn plan RU D ¿YH \HDU JRDO 6RPHWLPHV LW VHHPV like a card on a table, a sentence that stings, a reminder to stop scattering and start building. I’m still on the journey. But now I have a clearer compass and a deeper understanding that the real magic isn’t in the cards. It’s in the courage to act on what they reveal.

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